In the last chapter we began thinking about the SOURCE of problems. Where do problems come from? What causes problems? Why do we have problems? We learned three things:
In this chapter we want to think this through some more. What creates problems? What causes them? We will now consider 8 things that will help us to understand where problems come from:
Some problems are due to our own IGNORANCE. Our mind lacks knowledge about something and this lack of knowledge can bring about problems. A young child may not know that a stove can get very hot and this ignorance could lead to a problem (a burn!). There might be a very hot pan or dish on the table, but we might not know it is hot. When we try to pass it to someone we get burned! A young person might try to slice some meat, but for some reason the carving knife does not seem to work (this person does not realize that the knife is upside down).
On vacation, your family might be trying to find a certain town. Someone gives you directions, but they are the wrong directions. If you follow these directions, will you arrive at the town?_____ Will you successfully reach your destination?_______ You have a problem (you are lost!) because you did not know that the directions were wrong directions. Or someone might give you some gadget or gizmo but not give you the instructions that are supposed to go with it. Therefore you cannot get it to work because you do not know how it works.
In the same way, your ignorance causes many problems. Joseph’s brothers did not know that, the man who was governor over all the land was their brother (Genesis 42:8) and because of this ignorance they ran into all kinds of problems. In Esther 6:6, who did wicked Haman think that the King wanted to honor? ____________________ Who did the King really want to honor (Esther 6:10)?___________________________ Because of Haman’s ignorance in the matter he created a big problem for himself!
To KNOW NOT leads to trouble or problems (see 2 Kings 17:26 and Proverbs 4:19). Does God want us to be IGNORANT (1 Corinthians 10:1 and 1 Thessalonians 4:13)?_______ Can you think, of some problems in your own life that have come because you did not know something?
This is similar to ignorance, but it is slightly different. This is an ignorance that is due to my own failure. I did not see and sense something because I was careless and not paying attention. It is one thing to be given wrong directions and end up lost. It is another thing to be given the right directions and still end up lost because I really did not pay attention to those directions.
We should know, but we do not know! This is like the teenager who dives into a pool that was drained the night before! Have you ever carried the wrong books home from school and the books you really needed were left behind in your school locker? Has your teacher ever announced a quiz when you were not paying attention, and then later you come to class totally unprepared? Have you ever placed an object down (such as a pair of glasses, a watch, a wallet, etc.) without paying attention to where you put it, and then later you cannot find it? These are problems that we cause by our own carelessness and failure to see and sense as we should.
What problem did Eutychus make for himself by his failure to pay attention to what was going on (Acts 20:7-9)? ________________________________________ Think of Pharaoh and the great plagues that God sent upon the land of Egypt. Was Pharoah really paying attention? Was he really seeing and using his senses in the right way? He should have said in his heart, "If God is this great to cause all of these plagues, then I need to obey him and let His people go!"
Did Israel see and sense who their Master and Creator was (Isaiah 1:3)?______ Did Peter, James and John pay attention and see and sense what the Lord wanted them to (Matthew 26:36-46)?____ Did they get into trouble because of this?_____________
Can you think of some problems in your own life that have come because you did not see and sense and pay attention as well as you should have?
Often we create problems because we refuse to do what we should (because of neglect, indifference, ignoring our duties, stubbornness, etc ). These are problem that are caused by my WILL (by the choices and decisions that I make or refuse to make). I choose not to study for my class and I refuse to study, and I end up with a problem (a bad grade). I am indifferent when it comes to spiritual things and I decide not to read my Bible, not to pray, not to pay attention in church, and I end up with a problem: I’m spiritually sick and my heart is getting harder and harder.
Which of the two sons in Matthew 21:28-30 refused to do his duty? ___________ Consider Proverbs 13:4. According to this verse, the lazy man has a problem. He does not obtain that which he desires. Why does he have this problem?_________________ What did the rich young ruler refuse to do (Matthew 19:21-22)?_________________________________________________ What problem did this cause for this man? __________________________________________________ What did the children of Israel choose to do when Moses was up on the mountain (Exodus 32:1-4)? ________________________________________ Did this cause a great problem?
Can you think of some problems in your own life that have come because you did not do what you should have done?
We can fail to do right, but we can also do the right thing in the wrong way, and this causes problems too! Often we try to do things in a way that is contrary to certain principles and laws, and we get into trouble.
A person might step off a roof, and immediately he has created a problem for himself because he has violated the law of gravity. A deep sea diver might foolishly think that he can work underwater without his oxygen tanks, but if he tries his life will be in "deep" trouble!
There are laws in the spiritual realm also. In the book of Esther, wicked Haman thought that be could destroy the Jewish people. But in trying to do this he was acting against a spiritual principle found in Genesis 12:3. Did Haman end up cursed (Esther 7:10 and compare Galatians 3:13)?______ Another spiritual law is that a person cannot fight against God and win. Can you think of someone in the Bible who tried to do this and ended up the loser?
Another spiritual principle is that OBEDIENCE results in God’s B ___________ (Deuteronomy 28:1-2) and DISOBEDIENCE results in God’s C__________________ (Deuteronomy 28:15-16). How did King Saul illustrate this principle in 1 Samuel chapter 15?
Can you think of some problems in your own life that have come because you did something wrongly and contrary to certain laws or principles?
We contact people and connect with people each and every day. Think about yesterday or the day before yesterday. What people did you make contact with and have to relate to in some way?
I must relate to others! I must make contacts with other people every day. I am with other people who have problems and I must seek to relate to them and get along with. them. When I am in a store I must relate to the other shoppers and sometimes stand in a line with them. I must relate to the person at the cash register, and there could be problems if she does not give me the right change or if I do not give her enough money. I must relate to others on the school bus and in class. I must relate to my teacher, and sometimes when she asks me a question in class I have a problem! I must relate to parents and neighbors. I must relate to people I know very well and people that I hardly know at all. I must relate to young children and to elderly grandparents.
Elijah had to deal with a Jezebel and all the problems that this evil woman caused. David had to relate to King Saul who was trying to kill him. Moses had to relate to the children of’ Israel who were often complaining and grumbling. What kinds of people did Paul have to make contact with (2 Corinthians 11:23-26)? _________________________________________________________________________________
How did Jacob handle his relationships with his sons (Genesis 37)? Did he create a problem by favoring Joseph so much?_______ How did Paul skilful1y handle the Jews who wanted to kill him (Acts 23:6-9)?
How do I handle my relationships with people? Do I handle them rightly? wrongly? Can you think of problems in your own life that have come because of relationships with people?
Suppose you were to go to a store and try to purchase a $40.00 radio even though you only have $20.00 in your wallet (or pocketbook). Are your resources enough? Would this create a problem?
Did you ever try to drive a car without gas? Did you ever try to ride a bicycle with no air in the tires? Is it difficult to throw a basketball into a hoop if you do not have a basketball?
Sometimes we simply do not have the resources that are needed to rightly handle a situation. Your family might be driving on the highway and suddenly the car breaks down. Perhaps no one in the family is able to fix it. You have a problem because you do not have the needed "know-how" or equipment or parts.
There are other times when we might try to make use of the wrong resources. Putting orange juice in the empty gas tank will not help the car to run either. Or, there might be a nut on the bicycle that needs to be tightened. Could you do it it you only had a hammer?
Solomon had a problem. He was king over a great kingdom but he did not have the resources to be the kind of King he should be (see I Kings 3:7-8). Did God give Solomon the resources that he needed to do the job (I Kings 3:9-13)?__________
Did the disciples think they had enough resources to feed the vast multitude (Matthew 14:16-17)? ______ What resources did King Saul think David needed to fight the giant (1 Samuel 17:38-39)? _________________________
Can you think of problems in your own life that have come because you did not have resources or you tried to use the wrong resources?
Many of our problems are due to the fact that we react in the wrong way to people and to situations. We often react in a negative way. Instead of going forward and making progress, we react wrongly and take a step backwards. We react in an opposing way.
Someone might suggest that we do something and we oppose it arid say, "I’LL DO THE OPPOSITE!" For example, our parents might be concerned about our school work. Is it possible to react in the wrong way and say (or think): "If you want me to learn, than I won’t learn!" Notice how Peter reacted in John 13:6-9. When he saw that Jesus wanted to wash his feet, how did, he react? ____________________________________________________ _______________________________________ When he learned how necessary it was to have his feet washed, how did he over-react (verse 9)? _____________________________________________________________________
How did Peter react when Jesus announced His coming death (Matthew 16:21-23)? How did Jonah react when God told him to go to the wicked city of Nineveh (Jonah 1:l-3)?
Can you think of problems in your own life that have come because of the way you reacted or over-reacted?
Many problems come because of the way I respond to the words, works and ways of others. Sometimes I respond in a voluntary way (no one made me respond in this way, I just did it) and sometimes I respond in a spontaneous way (I respond automatically to a stimulus). If a cow walks into an electric fence, you can be sure that it will respond in a certain way! If you are hungry and your Mom puts some freshly baked food on the table, you will respond (your mouth will water)!
Animals respond instinctively to things. They just respond in the way God made them to respond. We should be careful lest we should ever say, "That dog (or cat or bird or whatever) has a better life than I do!" Is that really so? I need to realize that I am not a dog. God has not made me a dog and I therefore do not want to be a dog! God has much better things for me because I am a PERSON. God wants me to learn to respond to life’s situations and life's people in the right way.
The problems come with the wrong kind of responses. Often we respond to things by being afraid or by worrying. If someone starts arguing with us, we usually respond by arguing right back. If someone wrongs us or harms us, the normal response is to retaliate. Many problems are created by such sinful responses.
How did Haman respond when he saw that Mordecai would not bow before him (Esther 3:5)? How did Joseph a brothers respond when they saw that Jacob loved Joseph more (Genesis chapter 37)? How did Moses respond when the children of Israel complained that there was no water (Numbers 20:1-11)? How did Miriam and Aaron respond to Moses’ leadership (Numbers l2:l-10)? How did Peter respond when Jesus was arrested (John 18:10-11)?
Can you think of problems in your own life that have come because of the way you have responded to a certain situation or a certain person?
Problems there are and problems there shall be, so it is up to me to cope and not collapse (and/or be crippled). It is up to me to carry and care and not to rush and be crushed.
Whether I am alone or whether I am in a crowd, I am going to be faced with many problems. It is NORMAL and COMMON to have problems: "there bath no temptation taken you but such as is __________________ to man" (1 Corinthians 10:13). The problems you have are not UNCOMMON! Even Elijah was a man "subject to like passions" A_____ W_____ A_____ (James 5:17). Even this godly man had problems JUST LIKE WE DO!
My world is going to be filled with problems. The question of importance is this: HOW WILL I HANDLE THESE PROBLEMS? Either I will handle them right or they will handle me! Either I hold my problems or they will hold me! Either I deal with them or they will deal with me!
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