As we learned in the last chapter, if we really take a stand for the Lord, then there is a price that must be paid. We may
Walk alone (The great majority of people follow the crowd, but the Christian
has decided to please and obey God and be different.)
Be mocked and ridiculed
Taking a stand for the Lord could result in times of loneliness. Thus, we must consider the very important subject of DEALING WITH LONELINESS.
A person could be around thousands of people (at an athletic stadium, in a shopping mall, at school, etc.) and yet be a very lonely person. On the other hand, a person could be in the middle of a desert with the nearest person miles away and not be lonely. It is possible for a person to be alone but not lonely.
Consider Matthew 14:23.
Was the Lord Jesus alone? ______
Was He lonely? ______
Why not? ___________________________________________________________
What is LONELINESS? Below you will find several statements which describe loneliness. As you consider these statements, see if there are any that may apply to you.
Here are two essential steps that must be followed if you are to successfully
The living God wants to be your closest Friend! He is the nearest and dearest and best Friend that a person could ever have.
Is He a Person who should be closer to us than even our parents? See Psalm 27:10.
Is He a Person that we should love far more than any other person? See Matthew 10:37.
Is He a Friend who is true to the very end, even when all others should fail us? See 2 Timothy 4:6,7,10,11,14,16,17.
Is He a faithful Friend who will never forsake us? See Hebrews 13:5–6.
In every man there is an emptiness and loneliness that only God can fill. Can
you think of other reasons why the living Lord is perfectly qualified to be the
best Friend of all?
Loneliness is only a surface problem. The real deep-seated problem is nothing but self-centeredness. This is the ugly sin which actually causes and produces that terrible feeling of loneliness. The lonely person is the person who sees only himself and his own needs and desires. The lonely person has a "Me, Myself and I" complex. Instead of developing a concern for others, he is all wrapped up in himself.
The lonely person says: "No one loves me."
Instead of saying: "There are many in need of my love. Who can I love today?"
The lonely person says: "I have no friends."
Instead of saying, "Who can I be friendly to?"
The lonely person says: "No one cares about me."
Instead of saying, "I really care about that person and I'm going to show him/her that I care."
The lonely person says, "I never receive my necessary requirements of praise, attention and recognition."
Instead of saying, "Let me see what encouragement and help I can give to others."
Please CORRECT the following verses:
FINAL EXERCISE: Go back to the statements on loneliness given earlier in this chapter and show how you can conquer each one by forgetting yourself and reaching out to others. The first three are done for you:
Acknowledgements: Some of the material in this chapter was adapted from Discussion Manual for Student Relationships (Volume 1) by Dawson McAllister and Dan Webster (Moody Press).
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